At some point in life you begin to realize that age, just like background and previous experiences does matter. In fact it matters more than what we like to think most times. Sometimes you just come across situations and people that don't understand what should have your undivided attention and what shouldn't even be a factor. Learning how to preserve and protect our energy is a mood. I'm learning that just because a person is of age does not mean that they've achieved their

When you're 16 you have your entire life planned out. You know what you want to do, who you want to be and how much you want to make. Life is good, the biggest bill is your cell phone and your largest worry is graduating from high school. And then suddenly you’re 24 and trying to figure out where the hell has time gone? Trust me, I’m an adult. I know. It seems like at age 24 there’s a light that comes on in your brain that screams “YOU'RE RUNNING OUT OF TIME!” “DO SOMETHING W

Before I go into the archives and give y'all a good taste of where my mind is almost all the time, I have to say something that I missed the opportunity to get out in the intial post. Before I had the courage to launch this site, I was a writer for an urban blog based out of Chicago, called True Star. I was presented the opportunity by a very talented gentleman, Henr'i Collins. He took a chance without ever laying eyes on anything I had written and things like that just don't

*Pops tongue* So I'm sure you all are wondering where all of this new shit has come from with me. By new shit I mean blogs, vlogs, and the advice column. And to be perfectly honest, it's been a lifelong dream to jump into this and share it with each of you. If anyone has read even a single piece by me, you're aware that being a writer wasn't necessarily "The Goal". However, when God calls on you to do something and be somewhere. I think it's important that you not only be sti