Heartbroken, 22 pounds heavier than I'd like to be, and listening to Jazmine Sullivan sing about forever not lasting too long these days. I find myself constantly repeating things that positively affirm me after the facts hit me that I survived an abusive relationship. I have to remind myself that I made a mistake, but that mistake does not determine who I am. It does not make me stupid, worthless or unable to move on and love again. The hardest thing about truths are accepti